Kidney Stones

So I went to the doctor today. The doctor can be a funny place.

I've been having problems with kidney stones. It's a Mullen thing, it's what we do. So naturally, when you have kidney stones you gotta go to the doctor's office. You do this cause those little stones can drop you to the ground. They say that kidney stones can be worse than pregnancy... I've never been prego so I don't know and my pain isn't constantly dropping me but it's there.  My sister, Andrea, had them bad when she was about 14. Home girl went into shock because the pain was so bad (holla girl!).

Anyways, I'm sitting in the office waiting room. Let's talk about those for a second. Have you ever noticed that those rooms almost always have a theme? I've seen Winnie the Pooh, golf, California, forest, nasty tack, creepy plastic body parts.... you know what I'm talking about, the awesome room theme. It's like the doctor is trying to lull you into a false since of security... cause you know he is not going to hesitate to stick you with a needle if he has to. Geeze. Well, this time no needles.  So the doctor and I are bonding over kidney stones and she's explaining more about stones then I every knew.  Basically, my beautiful urethra is 2mm in diameter and I've got a precious little stone that's 4mm.... yeah, pull out that math. And she says that I needs to strain my urine to catch this sucker. So she gives me a strainer and tells me I can go.

Then I have to do this walk of shame through the office and then down the stairs through the waiting room, into the parking lot with this urine strainer.  And now everyone knows my issues and knows what I'm going to do with that. Totally judged! So awkward! That's why God gave us purses. Cause you never know who is walking around with a urine strainer in her purse.

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Gardening on a Budget: Starting Vegetables from Seed

I love the thought of having a garden.  I love the idea of planting something, creating something, and watching it grow and then reaping its benefits. Every year I have dreams that my garden will be this beautiful, vegetable producing machine.

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But really, sometimes it just doesn't turn out how I envision it. 

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So, with my beautiful garden in mind I've decided to start my garden early and I've decided to go the thrifty way. I like the idea of saving money and being resourceful.  Being a newlywed, newly graduated, no job woman, I like saving money.  There are lots of things that you can do to save money when you plant a garden. One of those things is to start your vegetables from seed. Buying young vegetables that have already started growing can be two to three times more expensive than buying seeds. Seeds can be very easy to grow, but do take time.  That's why I'm starting before the last frost (usually around Mother's Day) so that I can get a head start and save some money.  

How to start your vegetables from seed

1. Pick out your seeds!

The sky is the limit! This is the very best part.  Think about your Summer and your favorite Summer foods. Mine has to be salsa (Roma tomatoes, white onions, cilantro, jalapenos), tomatoes-cheese-onion sandwiches (tomatoes and white onions), corn on the cob (sweet corn), and squash and pumpkins for Halloween! Plant the vegetables that you eat the most. This will help you save money too. If I can pay 1.50 for all the fresh cucumbers that I can consume this Summer, that's going to save me money.

My beauties!!

2. Prepare to plant your seeds

Ok, there are a lot of different options here. First, you need something to put your seeds in. My budget allowed for me to buy a seed starter kit (it was about $5.50 at Cook's).  You can even use a left over egg carton (look, you're already saving money!). Then you need some soil to put in your tray or egg carton. Seeds don't need fertilizers, just regular soil. I would suggest getting a cheap, small bag from the store. This one I got was a little less than $7. It is a special mix for starting seeds (I'm hoping this will help me as I'm growing my green thumb).

This is the starter kit

This is an egg carton tray
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3. Plant those seeds

Every seed is going to have different needs. They may not even be ready to plant right away (for example I am waiting till later in the season to plant my spaghetti squash). Every seed packet has directions on them so that you will know how to grow them.  The packets will definitely tell you how deep to plant the seed. So, take your seed, follow the instructions on depth and plant your seeds. You can plant multiple seeds in each space if you want, but one will do.  I think I might put a few of each kind in each space, just in case some don't grow and I can thin (after the plants reach 1" in height you can cut all the extra stems down, so there is only one stem a space) later if I need to. 

4. Water 

Moisture is the essence of wetness, and wetness is the essence of beauty. My boy Derek Zoolander said it best, if you want beautiful veggies you have to water them.  These little guys don't need a ton of water, but they need some. I would suggest a spray bottle, or something with a small spout and water everyday, more like mist everyday. Don't drown your plants though. 

5. Sunlight

Place your tray or egg carton on a window sill so that it can get a lot of sun light (if your window is facing north this isn't going to work very well). As your seeds start growing into plants and the weather starts getting warmer you can take your tray outside for a couple hours every day to help wean them into normal plant life. 

Here they are in my windowsill, ready to grow!

6. Transplant to your garden

After your seeds are grown and ready to be planted (remember those packets will tell you what time of year to plant) then it's time to transplant to your garden! A beautiful day. Your packet will tell you how far apart to plant them as well. Once plants are at this stage you can start using fertilizer to help them grow. 

I'm super stoked to watch these puppies grow! I'll keep you updated on my progress.

Married Life

Time sure flies when you are having fun and I have been having a blast! The last year has been cray cray. Being married is awesome! And different. And exciting. And frustrating. And moving. And lovely. And peaceful. And fast. And beautiful. And sweet. And comfortable. But before we got married lots of people told us that being married would be hard.  Being married is not hard, learning to be selfless is hard.
Self-less [self-lis]: having little or no concern for oneself; unselfish; having little concern for one's own interest; being married. Just kidding! I added that last one. Selfless - less self. Less - more of something else. So, selfless is less of yourself and more of someone else. Love it, hate it. It's a skill that I'm working on.

I feel like I have these needs that need to be met (well, obviously needs need to be met). My needs are things like happiness and comfort, you know the usual things.  But, by being a selfless person I'm putting my husband's needs, the same general needs that I have, before my own needs.  Not as easy as it sounds... just kidding, it doesn't even sound easy.

Ok, riddle me this: Who is the most selfless person in history? Who gave up his needs, his own life for others, for the world? The Savior. In Mark 10:43-45 it says, "...whosoever will be great among you, shall be your minister: and whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all. For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minster, and to give his life a ransom for many."

So, having a selfless marriage is having a Christ centered marriage.  Being Christ like to each other. I remember the day that Mitch and I got married.  We were sitting in LDS Spokane, Washington Temple together. It was just us. He was holding me and we were talking about how great our lives were going to be together.  It was perfect.  The whole world had stopped and it was just us, we were the center of the world.  I promised right there that I would try my very best to be the wife that Mitch needed.  I promised that I would do my best to give Mitch the comfort, support, security, understanding, forgiveness and love that the Savior would give him. And I think that I will dedicate my whole life to becoming that person for my husband.  And that's what marriage is.

Gosh I love this man!